Mo:London
Amazing Essential, Hoss, Stella Forest, Betsey Johnson Sample Sale
Family birthdays
Father´s Day
H&M + Comme de Garcons
Christmas Shopping
When I was in my late teens going through a faze of "disturbed eating patterns" (I don´t want to call it eating disorder-because that would be an exaggeration) I went from refusing to eat different food stuff (ie cheese, butter, cream, meat, deserts, bread or whatever else was the enemy of that week) to binging on both cooked food, sandwiches, crisps, popcorn, sweets, deserts, etc (yes, in one sitting).
In hindsight I would call my state
"senile bulimia" (or in Swedish
"senil-bulemi") which basically means binging without the throwing up....
ANYWAY...Very similar feelings to what would be felt after those binges, will sometimes occur even today. The difference is, now it´s not related to food anymore, but shopping.
That overfull, nauseated, unclean, guilt-ridden feeling of
TOO MUCH and ENOUGH is ENOUGH.
Luckily, it happens much more rarely these days, but the period running up to Christmas can be a challenge.
That´s why I´m very happy about the 1 X-mas present rule in our family. It was enforced on my family about 6 scandalous X-mases ago when our X-mas tree didn´t even touch the floor anymore, because of all the presents beneath it.
We were 6 adults celebrating Christmas.
Not even a child in sight.
After that low point, it was decided that from now on: only 1 X-mas gift per person to be given.
A good rule. And sadly in our house, a necessary rule.
Although several family members have tried to bend the rule a few times (me included), from then on at least we don´t have to feel embarrased about the obscene amount of packages under the X-mas tree anymore.
Also, it lessens the risk of overspending zillions on presents, therefore also lessening the risk of a serious shopping hang-over.
*Less impulsive shopping,
*buying fewer but more classic (and therefore more expensive, I´m afraid) items,
*staying away from the New Year-SALE
*not owning a credit card
*and sometimes even just refusing going into shops at all,
are also strategies that have worked well.
Just like an eating disorder, you are never completely cured, but being aware will at least help you stay away from the worst pitfalls...
HAPPY CHRISTMAS SHOPPING
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