We celebrated P´s birthday yesterday. It actually felt a little bit different (lovely different), now that there´s three of us.
P cooked (because we wanted the guests to be able to eat the food) a lovely dinner and we had some friends over for a Birthday-lunch.
I did some weights in the gym after my classes tonight. Hmmm...it would be good if I got around to doing some more of that in the next couple of months. I was struggling.
Sensitive subject coming up...
First of all I want to thank "I" for sending me the invitations. I do appreciate the thought.
I´ve had 2 or 3 sms-invitations to join this group of new mothers in their "walk-and-talk-and-fika"-activities. Have I joined? No. Will I join? No. Ever? No.
Why? Because I´m a time snob. (Which most probably is not even a word, I just made that up)
Even being on maternity leave, I find that the days just FLY past. There is room for one, maximum 2 "activities" per day. I´m a mother now, but I´m still the same person that I was before I got Robin. It means, I have the same friends, enjoy the same things and: I prioritize the same people as before. I just don´t have the time or the need or the inclination to meet new people just because they also happen to be new mothers and I desperately do not want to talk about baby poo, lack of sleep, or breast feeding for half a day with women that I don´t even know. Not to mention spending hours around lots of babies. I wasn´t a baby person before and I have to say I´m not really a baby person now... Two babies at a time - no problems, three or four or more? Ehh, punch me in the head already.
I declined all future group-mama-meetings (in a nice way) by sms today.