Being a parent is the ultimate living in the now. Whatever you have experienced before on the subject is tested to the limits the day you do parenthood.
You can plan, you can visulize, you can prepare for hours, days and weeks, but at the end of the day it can turn out totally different from what you thought.
We should have had dinner at a gourmet restautant in Kivik, with a childfree stay at a hotel tonight. Instead we're in the car on the E6 heading home with a little one clogged up with green snot. Not as romantic as planned.
...lucky they're cute...
-blingblinged from my iPhone